People always think that looking good is key to attract a man. It may be true, but not in the way we erraneously think. You do not have to look like a model to attract any man you want; not at all. Being sexy and being attractive has very little to do with how 'done-up' you are, and not that much to do with your weight, your size or how objectively beautifuly you may be. The best look, the one which ensures attractiveness, is one which conveys the following concepts:
you must look natural, fresh, healthy and 'soft'.
Men are visual, that is true (and that's why we always place emphasis on the outside appearance of a person - but in the wrong way); however, you will be surprised at the visual clues that turn men on! We just don't think about them, but those special visual clues are what make us attractive (or not) to the other sex. As a rule of thumb, if you look fresh, clean, natural and 'soft', you are onto a winner already. Your hair does not have to be long (contrary to popular belief) but it needs to look soft. Men are visual creatures but they are also tactile creatures, so he'll love to fantasize how he's running his fingers through your hair. As long as it's at least 2 inches long and fingers can run through it, you will be fine (remember to make it look soft). So, get rid of hair extensions or hair pieces that make your hair look matted or 'stiff'.
This is the same for every aspect of your look including your clothes. You can have a tan or you can be pale, you can wear short skirts or weak jeans and a simple clean T-shirt, but you need to look fresh, clean and soft. Excessive make up is to be avoided at all costs for this very reason, and so is strong perfume or hair spray! Men do not like that stuff, they only endure it!
The fresh, natural, healthy and soft rule applies to every aspect of your look. Simplicity is key when you are in doubt. I have heard many men say how turned on they were by women who were working out, with their simple gym clothes, no make up etc; but all those women were looking healthy and natural, especially after a work-out (your skin and eyes look radiant after each workout, remember that!).
Besides your look, you need to strategize your demeanour and your behaviour with the men you want. More on this on BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS and on MAKE HIM CRAZY for you.
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Eden Gibsons and Silvana Nucciola are contributors to the website http://www.mysearchingforlove.com
Eden Gibsons and Silvana Nucciola
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