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Asian Dating Advice - 3 Rules for Successful Asian Dates

   by Eden Gibsons and Jules Montyin Relationships / Dating    (submitted 2011-05-27)

The process of romantic connections is mostly the same for everyone, but there may be cultural nuances that you ought to bear in mind.
The following guidelines are helpful in making sure they will want to see you again and again.
1. The Scent. This is probably either overplayed or underplayed, depending on your cultural or familial background. If you use too much aftershave you will 'smell' phony, fake and a player; on the other hand, if you are not perfectly clean with perhaps a touch of good quality aftershave, you will appear to be sloppy and will give a very bad impression. So, the best approach is to take a shower or bath just before your encounter, especially if it's your first. You may not be aware but body odour is very unappealing to most women and covering it with aftershave just won't do. Your skin must smell fresh, so that the first impression is that of a man who knows how to take care of himself and, therefore, you'll be able to take care of her (it's a psychological thinking process at subliminal level).
2. Do not be late. Try and be early if you can, but at least don't be late. Men who show up late appear arrogant, indifferent, and careless; the woman will think less of him. There is no amount of gifts or grand gesture which can make up for such a bad impression.
3. Be a Gentleman. Brush up on manners and act like a gentleman. At least offer to help her with her coat, open the door for her if you can, and so on. It shows emotional maturity and 'manliness'. If you don't act like a gentleman you will appear to be boy-like and selfish. So, at the end of the meeting, offer to pay and expect to pay, unless she insists that you go fifty-fifty. Do not let her pay for the whole meal (or drink, or activity) because she will think about it later on and begin to resent it or think of you much less favourably. Moreover, a gentleman listens carefully to what she has to say and answers any questions she may ask with confidence and honesty. Finally, don't get drunk; it shows great immaturity at the very least.

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Jules Monty and Eden Gibsons are permanent contributors to the love website http://www.mysearchingforlove.com

Eden Gibsons and Jules Monty



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