Meeting women and having conversations with them is a great way to improve your social skills and to potentially meet the love of your life. While that is easy to say, walking up to a stranger and starting a conversation out of the blue can be an intimidating process for many. In this short guide, I'm going to share with you 5 tips you can implement immediately. While there are many, many ways to improve your success with women, here are 5 for you to start with:
Tip #1 - Take Initiative. Meeting women can be done anytime and anywhere. For some people, this may include coffee shops, the gym, or places that are part of their day-to-day routine. For others, meeting women may consist of evening activities such as bars, dance clubs, or even happy hour at their favorite restaurant. Regardless of the situation, if you see somebody that you want to meet, don't be shy about it. Walk up to them and start a conversation. This simple action shows confidence and INSTANTLY reveals A LOT about you to other women.
For many people, the process leading up to the interaction is typically the most nerve wrecking. Thoughts of self doubt and uncertainty may pop into a person's head during this short period of time before the interaction. However, the key thing to note is that once the conversation has been started and you're interacting with a woman, most fear and nervousness typically disappear.
Tip #2 - Talk About Your Passions. Starting a conversation with a complete stranger can sometimes be an uncomfortable process for many. Often times, the question of "What do I talk about?" arises. To ease that concern, talk about topics that you are passionate about. When you are passionate about something, you're more likely to make eye contact, smile, and emit positive energy. When you emit this type of positive energy, you will naturally begin to attract more women into your life.
Most women already have enough things that they have to worry about in their daily lives. Be passionate and enthusiastic about what you're doing with your own life. If your life doesn't excite you, take some time to figure out what makes you happy. Life is short. Make the most out of it. If you aren't living a life that you are excited and passionate about, you are being robbed of the joy that every human being on this earth deserves.
Tip #3 - Be a Good Listener. Listen carefully to what other people say, both verbally and non-verbally. At any given point in time, people are always communicating, either verbally or non-verbally. By listening and being attentive to these forms of communication, you'll be able to learn more about others, connect on a deeper level, and build more of a connection.
When listening, it is critical to be real and authentic during this process. When the other person is talking, try not to interrupt with your point of view. Every individual is unique and offers a unique interpretation of life based on their personal experiences. Take a moment to sincerely listen to the other person and understand their viewpoint and perspective. When you do this, it shows that you care for them on a deeper level and respect their opinion. When you apply this in your interactions with women, the odds of building a deeper connection and building attraction instantly increase.
Tip #4 - Flirt and Be Able to Recognize Flirting. One of the keys to connecting on a deeper level with women is through flirting. This includes eye contact, physical contact through playful touching, teasing, or maintaining a playful mood through the stories and conversation that you have. By doing a combination of any one of these, you will automatically set yourself apart from other guys in her life. This automatically increases the chances of her NOT placing you in the "friend zone".
In addition to connecting and flirting with women, it is equally important to recognize the signs that a woman may be flirting with you. What are some signs that she may be flirting or interested in you? Some signs may include eye contact, smiling, playing with her hair, putting herself in proximity of you, mirroring your actions, physically touching you, talking to you with a big smile on her face, or having conversation that consists of teasing or being playful. Though these signs may not always be 100% telltale signs that she is interested, more often than not, they are good indicators that she is.
Tip #5 - Don't Be Afraid to Ask For Her Contact Info. At the end of your conversation, if there is a mutual connection and you think this person would be somebody worth knowing, ask for their contact information. This can be in the form of a phone number, email address, business card, or some form of social media contact. Preferably, you want to get their phone number because this is the most direct form of communication available. Doing so allows you the option of talking directly via the phone or communicating via text message. Both these avenues are effective methods because most people have their phones by them 24/7.
So to reiterate, ASK for a woman's contact information! Many men forget this important step because of a variety of reasons. In many cases, men either forget or are too shy. In other cases, the fear of rejection sets in. If that is you, GET OVER IT! There will be women that you meet in your life that will give you their contact information, and there will be women in your life who don't. That is just how things go. If you constantly live in fear of being rejected, you are robbing yourself of the opportunity to meet somebody great! Every master was once a disaster. Any person who has any level of success in life, regardless of their field, was once terrible at it. So if you're terrible at meeting women and getting their contact information, consider this the path to your mastery.
By incorporating these 5 tips, you'll be well on your way to improving your overall success when meeting women and having conversations with them. And lastly, the key thing about this entire process is that you get to meet people for free! You can't beat that. So get out there, take action, and implement the tips listed above. By doing so, you just might meet somebody special.
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