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How to Approach Women - What Not To Say When You Approach Her
There is no question about it. Making the approach is one of the most difficult aspects of trying to get dates with women. For most guys, they just cannot seem to get themselves to make the approach for anything. If you have ever seen a woman you really wanted to speak to and you found yourself almost paralyzed with uncertainty about walking on over to her, keep reading. When most men DO actually make the approach, they set themselves up for failure by saying all of the WRONG things.
You don't want that to happen to you. Not when it takes so much just to get yourself to walk on over to a woman. You don't want to blow it by letting the wrong words come out of your mouth. She could be totally attracted to you, but if you say the wrong things to her, you pretty much have no chance at all.
What are some things that you should NOT say to a woman when you approach her?
1. Do NOT say that you want to buy her a drink.
This is probably the most generic line that any guy can use. It's the one that you see being used in movies and television shows all of the time. And it is supposed to work. Problem is, most of the time all it will work for is for the woman getting a free drink and nothing more than that. This kind of line ends up setting you up as the typical guy in a bar and does absolutely NOTHING to make her see you as a guy she wants to date.
2. Do NOT say that she must have fell from heaven because she is an angel.
Talk about cheesy, right? A line like this when you approach a woman kind of shows that you have little experience or that you just have no game at all. Use this kind of an opener on a woman you have approached and you might as well reserve a place for one back at home, because she is not going to be joining you.
3. Do NOT try to brag about what you do for a living.
This is important for two reasons. One, no one likes to be approached by someone they don't know and then hear them brag about themselves. Two, if you DO have a good job, this kind of an approach sets you up to be taken advantage of by a "gold digger." Tell her that you have a really good job and that will turn on the lights in her head and make her think that you are definitely RIPE to be taken advantage of. About the Author
Now that you know what NOT to say, are you ready to find out how to approach women and say all of the RIGHT things?
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21.9.11
What Men Find Irresistible in Women - How to Attract a Man With Your Looks
People always think that looking good is key to attract a man. It may be true, but not in the way we erraneously think. You do not have to look like a model to attract any man you want; not at all. Being sexy and being attractive has very little to do with how 'done-up' you are, and not that much to do with your weight, your size or how objectively beautifuly you may be. The best look, the one which ensures attractiveness, is one which conveys the following concepts:
you must look natural, fresh, healthy and 'soft'.
Men are visual, that is true (and that's why we always place emphasis on the outside appearance of a person - but in the wrong way); however, you will be surprised at the visual clues that turn men on! We just don't think about them, but those special visual clues are what make us attractive (or not) to the other sex. As a rule of thumb, if you look fresh, clean, natural and 'soft', you are onto a winner already. Your hair does not have to be long (contrary to popular belief) but it needs to look soft. Men are visual creatures but they are also tactile creatures, so he'll love to fantasize how he's running his fingers through your hair. As long as it's at least 2 inches long and fingers can run through it, you will be fine (remember to make it look soft). So, get rid of hair extensions or hair pieces that make your hair look matted or 'stiff'.
This is the same for every aspect of your look including your clothes. You can have a tan or you can be pale, you can wear short skirts or weak jeans and a simple clean T-shirt, but you need to look fresh, clean and soft. Excessive make up is to be avoided at all costs for this very reason, and so is strong perfume or hair spray! Men do not like that stuff, they only endure it!
The fresh, natural, healthy and soft rule applies to every aspect of your look. Simplicity is key when you are in doubt. I have heard many men say how turned on they were by women who were working out, with their simple gym clothes, no make up etc; but all those women were looking healthy and natural, especially after a work-out (your skin and eyes look radiant after each workout, remember that!).
Besides your look, you need to strategize your demeanour and your behaviour with the men you want. More on this on BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS and on MAKE HIM CRAZY for you.
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Eden Gibsons and Silvana Nucciola are contributors to the website http://www.mysearchingforlove.com
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